Kissing techniques for guys

Last week, for the first time in his life, Andrew kissed a woman in such a way that he could just about see her melt. He’d met Heather at a party. She was standing alone, checking her watch – clearly uncomfortable and waiting for someone to arrive…

He approached her with confidence and engaged her emotionally with the perfect opener. Throughout the evening he escalated touching at just the right pace, building intimacy and attraction without making her feel pressured.

The attraction was definitely there, so Andrew decided to use the kissing techniques for guys that he’d learned about from his Kama Lifestyles coach. The most important thing Andrew’s coach had taught him is that men and women see kisses differently. Women use kissing to judge if a man will be a good lover or not. They often base their decisions to date or have a relationship with someone on the first kiss. This means that the first kiss is crucial – getting it wrong could mean that she immediately loses interest, and nothing he says or does could change her mind.

Luckily, kissing techniques for guys are straightforward, so he wasn’t nervous about changing the way he did things. Before he leaned in for a kiss, Andrew thought about his coach’s advice:

• Go prepared

-   Make sure your breath is fresh by keeping hydrated and popping a breath mint into your mouth a minute or two before the kiss. Aside from the turn-off of smelly breath, women see the taste of your mouth as an important factor in deciding to keep kissing you or kissing you again. Your breath also tells her about your health and hygiene. Lips are important too and they must never be dry or chapped.

-   Create sexual tension through teasing, flirting, and using your voice and body language.

-   Check if she’s ready for the kiss with verbal or non-verbal cues. A non-verbal technique is swapping your gaze between her lips and eyes, making her aware of your interest on a subconscious level.

• The Kiss

-   Start with a soft, gentle kiss and let the momentum build up gradually.

-   Lightly rub your lips against hers, opening your mouth a little after a few moments to allow the wet part of your inner lip to touch the dry part of her lips. Gradually, apply more pressure to part her lips gently.

-   Holding her tightly (but not so tightly as to cause claustrophobia) will make the kiss more intense.

-   Don’t ram your tongue down her throat. Ever. But don’t just leave your tongue in her mouth either. Suck on her tongue and lips very lightly and keep your lips relaxed and soft.

-   Keep your saliva in check. Drink a glass of water beforehand or pull away slightly to swallow any excess saliva.

-   Close your eyes, relax and let nature take its course.

Andrew used the kissing techniques for guys that he had learned to improve his kissing technique and leave Heather breathless and wanting more. The secret to keeping the momentum going is building up sexual tension, but breaking the kiss before she does.

Andrew knew he had left an impression – his kiss told her that she’d found an excellent lover who is definitely boyfriend material. Although he’s always felt that he’s sexually experienced, Andrew never thought he’d get such a passionate response to a kiss from someone so beautiful. Learning Kama Lifestyles’ kissing techniques for guys set him apart from other men and gave him the skills to show women his true value.

Andrew McGregor, 27, Teacher, Dublin

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