There comes a time in every guy’s life that having a girlfriend becomes a necessity. During this period, we just need that special someone to share our hopes and dreams with. However, just saying…
‘I want a girlfriend’ is not enough there is still need for you to act on your feelings. Unfortunately, most guys do not know how to get a girlfriend.
If you are one of these guys, don’t despair! This article will give you the necessarily tips to assist you in not only knowing how to get the attention of the opposite sex but also finding that special someone that you have always wanted.
Tip one: Mind your appearance
Probably the most important thing that you can do when thinking about getting a girlfriend is to change the way you look. No matter how handsome you are as a man, girls always first look at your appearance and they will generally refuse advances from guys who are untidy, don’t bathe regularly or even brush their teeth. If you haven’t noticed yet, girls are very particular when it comes to hygiene and will never go out with a guy who doesn’t look after himself well.
Taking care of your appearance should be the first thing to think about when you decide out loud that ‘I want a girlfriend’. Some of the basic appearance tips include wearing clean clothes, shaving regularly, bathing frequently as well as using a deodorant.
Tip two: Socialize with girls
One of the problems that most single guys have when it comes to girls is that they don’t know how to interact with girls or women. This is quitea big issue. You can’t expect to have a girlfriend when you don’t socialize with women in the first place. No matter how much you say ‘I want a girl friend’, if you can’t chat with girls then you will still remain single for the rest of your life.
So how do you socialize with girls? Well, every guy has a friend or several friends who are very successful when it comes to women. So the best way of learning how to interact with girls is just to observe and learn how your friends do it and copy some of their methods. In addition, by hanging out with these ‘successful’ friends of yours, you also come in contact with the women they socialize with and their friends as well. This is always a good thing for a single guy as it can provide you with opportunities to approach the women your friends are familiar with.
Tip three: Be Yourself
For lonely single guys, sometimes just deciding to say ‘I want a girlfriend’ can lead to them pretending to be someone that they are not. Let’s face it! There many times in life when we pretend to be someone else just to please others. This is no different when it comes to getting a girlfriend. Due to desperation, a lot of guys fake their identity when meeting and interacting with women. But want you need to know is that pretending to be someone else never works out.
Girls have great intuition and they usually know when a guy is pretending. Suffice to say once caught, your chances of hooking up with the girl are zero. No one likes people who pretend to be something else.
On the other hand, when you are yourself, girls will naturally be comfortable around you and will let their guard down. And when a girl likes being around you then there is a great chance that sooner or later she will end up as your girlfriend.
Tip five: Have confidence
No matter how many times you say over and over again ‘I want a girlfriend’, without any confidence all your efforts will be useless. This is because it takes confidence to approach a girl and strike a conversation. And it takes confidence to ask a girl out on a date.The sad thing is that most guys out there have low self-esteem and this in turn affects their confidence.
However, if you start building on your confidence, there is no reason why you can’t get a girlfriend. Take small steps and you will soon be able to ask a girl out on a date.
If you would like to learn more about the art of attraction and how meet your ideal partner, check out our website on www.kamalifestyles.com. You can visit our testimonials page and listen to our audio interviews on the media page. We are here to help you so let the change begin today!”