It is such a shame when we lose confidence in some things, especially those that we thought we would never think otherwise. This is always due to some disappointment involved. We all have those things that…
we do not have confidence. It reaches a time where you lose confidence in a particular thing or that you just did not ever have any confidence in it at all. I have no confidence in men who cannot hold a good conversation even for five minutes only. There are always reasons behind lost confidence. In such an instance as I have mentioned earlier, such men tend to bore you even before they start talking. It is disappointing when I see a man fidgeting. It is shameful and I immediately conclude the man is timid. If that is not the case I stand corrected.
I have no confidence in women who cannot rely on themselves to live comfortable lives. It pains me to see that beautiful and able woman who still wants to rely on a man for her upkeep. It is terribly disappointing. It makes me wonder why they choose such lives. Learn to pay your bills if you want to enjoy life; otherwise do not give that lecture to your daughter… It is wrong for women to want a man to meet her needs all the time. Work hard and get your own. You will earn respect from your not only family and friends but men as well. Note I do not mean that you do not accept help from your partner, but a little independence is worth.
I recently realized that friends could wish you evil or good. It hurts so badly when you realize your friend is not happy for you especially when it comes to relationship matters. Why do girls get jealous even with their friends? What is wrong with our gender? Anyway, it sometimes amuses me when I notice a comment made out of jealousy. I have no confidence in friends with this trait. I keep wondering what they would not do when this vice overwhelms them even for a millisecond. Call me paranoid…It is an unwritten rule that friends should love and care for you. They should be the first people to be happy for you when something great happen.
I have no confidence in over friendly people. It is weird and puts me in an awkward situation. I will feel weird if you keep doing favors for me all the time. I have no confidence as well in extremely nice people. It is creepy and disturbing. It is okay, you can call me paranoid again…Even with such situations, I am hopeful of restoring my confidence. I believe in change and second chances.
We all have such issues with us. I went on a search for comments and thoughts from other people. Check out the interesting and weird ones at www.kamalifestyles.com I can happily conclude that I do not have weird trust issues as I am told