I’ve never been one of those guys who are naturally good with women. You know how it is – one of your mates is always just great with them. I tried to learn how to pick up women from watching other guys…
But I never managed as well as they did.It probably didn’t help that I had to have a few pints first for some Dutch courage. I didn’t feel sociable and outgoing enough without a few drinks. I’d go to a pub or club to pick up women and start the evening off at the bar, drinking as fast as I could for the first few rounds.
One of the problems with that technique was that I usually ended up getting so pissed that I couldn’t remember what I said or who I spoke to. I also have the vague feeling that I didn’t turn into Sir Sean after a couple of martinis. No one ever does. Instead of turning into a charming, witty gentleman, I turned into a loud, obnoxious idiot to hide that I had no confidence. Einstein said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results, so I decided to look for help.
I found the Kama Lifestyles site online and started asking around about them. I found a couple of guys who had either been on courses or who had heard about the courses and they all had good things to say. I decided that drastic action was needed so I signed up for the bootcamp. It’s the best dating decision I’ve ever made.
The bootcamp had three parts: theory, bar game, and club game. Instead of just explaining how to pick up women the coaches took us to bars and clubs to show us how it’d done in different settings. We were encouraged not to drink alcohol while practicing at all and it turned out to be easier than I thought. I was enjoying myself so much that I didn’t even miss it. In each of the venues the coaches stayed nearby to guide us and help us polish our game. It was hands down one of the best days of my life. I could approach any woman I wanted to, knowing that I was able to create attraction and interest. It was amazing watching the guys who were on the course with me get better as well – I couldn’t believe how some of them had changed between the morning and evening.
I don’t know if I’m ready for serious dating yet. Learning how to pick up women has changed my life. I’m having too much fun with casual dating and meeting loads of different women. I can be honest about who I am without being scared that they won’t like me. I know if one doesn’t I can easily meet someone else and it’s not the end of the world. My stomach doesn’t get all knotted before I walk into a bar or into a room anymore and all of this is thanks to Kama Lifestyles.