What women want is a mystery to most men. How to get a girl to like you even more so. I could never figure out what it is that women are looking for in men…
They say they want a man who’s kind and considerate and listens to them and is a good friend and so on and so forth, but when you’re like that you get friend zoned so fast your head spins. I got sick and tired of always being the nice guy and going home alone, so I decided to give Kama Lifestyles a try and signed up for their Dublin bootcamp.
The guys at Kama explained that what women say they want isn’t really what they want. This doesn’t mean that yes is no and no is yes, but when it comes to relationships you’ll get nowhere if you listen to the rubbish about “all I want is a nice guy”. It doesn’t mean that you should turn into an idiot either. What it really means is that women are looking for confident men. It’s as simple as that. Nice guys are seldom confident enough to go after what they want and to show their intentions.
How to get a girl to like you depends on creating attraction and you can only do that if you’re confident and you know how to use your body language to connect. Being confident doesn’t mean you should act arrogant either – arrogant men are usually insecure and try too hard to show that they’re better than others. Truly having confidence means that you don’t have to show off or be loud because you know you’re good enough to get women to like you. In fact, getting women to like you is less important when you’re confident because you know they’ll like you.
Through the theory course, the demonstrations and the practice sessions my confidence grew dramatically. By the end of the day I was able to walk up to women and chat to them like never before, knowing that I have something they want. My skills are getting better each day and I can now go up to any woman I fancy and come away with her number or more. And they never make the mistake of thinking I want to be their friend either. I make it clear that I have enough friends and I’m not interested in being “just friends”.
Being more confident has affected other parts of my life too. I’m more successful at work and people are starting to listen to me because I can show them that I’m worth listening to. Although I signed up for the bootcamp to learn how to get a girl to like you, I’m finding it easier to make friends too. You wouldn’t believe the changes learning the skills offered by Kama Lifestyles make until you experience it yourself. It’s a brilliant course presented by approachable, excellent coaches who want you to succeed and do everything they can to help you do just that.