Perfect Your French Kissing Technique

Alistair was out on his second date with Melissa. Their first date went very well and they ended it with a sweet, gentle kiss. Melissa had been very affectionate all evening and Alistair knew that it was time to push things further along…

Since he was looking for a long-term relationship or marriage, he didn’t want to rush the relationship, but he didn’t want the attraction and intimacy that he’d built up so far to fizzle out either. Alistair decided that the best way to keep things going would be to end the evening with an even more spectacular kiss.

The French kiss is also known as a deep kiss. Our tongues are very sensitive and this technique replicates the sex act, so it is powerful both physically and psychologically. As the name implies, the French kiss originated from the French and is an example of the deliberate yet subtle way they make love. Because it is highly intimate and sexually arousing, but still romantic, Alistair made the right choice in intensifying intimacy with Melissa.

Alistair was confident that he could wow Melissa with his French kiss technique. His Kama Lifestyles coach had explained the best methods to him, from the basics like:

• Don’t be too pushy or aggressive and don’t shove your tongue down her throat.

• Don’t allow your tongue to go limp in her mouth.

• Be careful about biting – either be gentle or don’t do it at all.

• Don’t slobber on her. Keep control of the amount of saliva in your mouth.

As the evening wore on, Alistair touched Melissa more frequently and gave her a few light, teasing kisses, always leaving her wanting more. Towards the end of the evening, he pulled her towards him and kissed her more firmly, hinting that something more was in store for her and keeping the sexual tension growing.

By the time Alistair took Melissa home, he could see that she was ready for a deep French kiss. He declined her offer of coffee at her place since he had to be at work early the next morning and couldn’t stay, but asked her for a glass of water instead. She invited him inside and, once they were comfortable, he focused on the more advanced French kiss techniques he learned from his Kama Lifestyles coach:

• Begin the kiss with your lips parted a little. Place your lips on hers firmly and use your tongue to trace patterns on her  lips before gently pushing your tongue between her lips.

• Remember to keep your tongue and lips soft and relaxed.

• The French kiss is sensual and romantic, so increase intensity and passion gradually.

• Pay attention to the way she kisses and what gets the best response. Mirror what she does since people tend to give the  way they like to get – if she bites on your lips, feel free to do the same.

• If she’s a terrible kisser, tell her what you like about the way she kisses instead of telling her what you don’t like. If all  else fails, hold her face in your hands (tenderly) and show her how you’d like to be kissed.

• Make the kiss last since women love slow enticing kisses.

Alistair’s French kiss technique was a big hit with Melissa. He made sure that the kisses were both romantic and arousing, and took careful notice of her body language and response. This allowed him to fine-tune his technique and tailor it to drive her wild. Alistair broke off the kiss with a lingering, teasing promise of more before going home. Using the French kiss techniques Alistair had learned from his Kama Lifestyles coach, he kept his momentum and kept Melissa interested.

Alistair Stone, 41, Pharmacist, Co. Carlow

If you would like to learn more about the art of attraction and how meet your ideal partner, check out our website on www.kamalifestyles.com. You can visit our testimonials page and listen to our audio interviews on the media page. We are here to help you so let the change begin today!